Our Relationships
Nowadays
we always say that it is difficult to
handle relationship. How could enjoy our relationship with different opinion ?
Let us we will see ,
Relations means i create a picture
in my mind how my daughter in law should be? How my son should be? & Son
create the image that How my father should be?
The image that create the person
through his behavior, thoughts & by his perception, if it will not match with his relationship then it will produce
conflicts as i am doing constantly match the following. My daughter in law
should be same as that serials heroine . If my daughter in law is not like
this. & not behaving also like this. This produces irritations in my family
& so my relationship gets disturb.
If you want our relationship
should be strong then you accept the other person as it is,
let
go for the other persons behavior.& give him guidance lovingly.
Some
following points makes our relationship difficult.
1]
Jealousy create barrier in our relationship. If i am jealous to anyone means i
feel inferior, i feel depress, i feel low, i feel weak, i feel not getting so i
behave differently. & so my relationship gets disturb.
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**THE MIRACLE OF PEACE **
Peace
is spirituality.
Peace is
simplicity .
Peace
brings satisfaction.
Peace
makes you smile.
Peace
is sweetness.
Peace
is stability.
Peace
creates solution.
Peace
makes you strong.
Peace
makes you stress free.
Peace
makes you sing in happiness.
Peace
creates your inner stress.
Peace
makes you scare.
Peace
is having sympathy.
Peace
brings safety.
Peace
is solitude.
Peace
is stillness of mind.
Peace
is having self respect.
Peace
makes you spontaneous.
Peace
enables you to know
all secrets of life.
** ABOUT WORRY**
‘’Worry’’ Worry is the misuse of power then why do we are getting
worry?
When we get up in the
morning we feel fresh as we have lot of storage of energy but what type of
energy we are using throughout the day is the choice of ours.
When we are worrying then we
are loosing our creativity, so that we feel heavy at the end of the day, as we
have used energy for worry & therefore worry is the misuse of power.
Some people thinks that worry
must be there ,if worry is not there ,care is also not there & how can we
do our work without worrying & caring ?
Nowadays so many parents are
worrying about their children like their studies, carriers, jobs, personalities
etc & they are teaching their
children also how can be worry?
Sometimes we carry some stories
from past to future but we don’t control past & future, so we can
controlling ourselves which is not in our control. & it creates pressure,
stress, anger, anxiety etc.
So many people worries about their
daughters marriage. What type of husband
will get to my daughters? Are there relationships are good or not?
How their family members behave? Etc.but
if your self image is clean & clear & your daughter have good sansakar
& self confidence then why did you are worrying?
She could adjust & face any
situation nicely.
We often creates worst thoughts
& becoming worry, this habit continue in our life & we are becoming a worrying
man.
I think our former President
Dr.A.P.J. ABDUL KALAM may be worried about
our Parliament work & he has stress & pressure so heart fail
happen.
